Was Elisabeth Hasselbeck Wrong About Lesbians?

Hot Topic: Barbara Walters asks: Why are we hearing more and more about women who come out later in life? Joy says women are born lesbian and cannot change and neither can a straight person change into a lesbian. Elisabeth asks, if perhaps hormones, or some other things may be an influence.

I am an avid fan of 'The View' and I love the 'Hot Topics' segment the best of all. I usually don't agree very often with Elisabeth Hasselbeck, and I usually side most often with Joy Behar, but today I had to take Elisabeth's side.
The above video is an older, previously taped conversation but very much the same tone as today's show, which the video is here.
If we are to believe that bi-sexuals do indeed exist, then one can be attracted to someone of each sex, but only able to marry one, so they must choose, and of course, many bisexuals choose the path of least resistence and go for the straight arraigment at first, thinking of reproduction factors in here as well. Later, after they see just how awful and degrading many men can make a wife feel, and the kids flew the nest, and after bonding with their many girlfriends over the tears throughout the years, they may suddenly realize that maybe a woman may better suit their more 'mature' needs, wants and desires in life, such as a clean house with a down toilet seat and more oral sex. The older we get the more we latch onto security as well. We need companionship and security more when older, than when younger. Love is love, so Joy, 'Who cares?' Who cares if they are male, female, bi-sexual, lesbian, who cares? I think there is a number of things that it could be or a combo of several at once, so who cares? Better late than never, I say!
In the meantime, ladies out there, why not tell us your opinion and experiences with a comment...